Homes Have Secrets | The Illusion of Marriage to Forget
In a new episode of the "Homes Have Secrets" program, we shed light on the phenomenon of marriage driven by the desire to escape a previous relationship or an attempt to forget an old love, when the new partner becomes a means to heal a wound that has not yet healed, instead of being a party in a relationship based on true readiness to build a life together.
The episode discusses how constant comparisons, and the desire for self-affirmation or revenge against the past, lead to mistreating an innocent partner and turning marriage into a cold relationship burdened with disappointments. It also addresses the role of some families and social pressures in hastening commitment, sometimes for reasons unrelated to the interests of the two parties or their readiness for marriage.
Marriage is not a means to forget, nor is it a space for settling scores with the past, and the new partner should not pay the price for wounds they did not cause. Furthermore, respecting the privacy of others and reducing intrusive judgments and questions is a social responsibility that contributes to protecting relationships and homes.
"Homes Have Secrets".. because building a new home begins with closing the doors of the past, not carrying its pains into it.
